yeah its weird tul..
i have been looking for a gf for like 2 years now, and ive been with heaps of girls ive liked but they havent liked me back that way, and each one seemed devastating. people will tell you that you will find it when you arent looking, or to try and do things a different way. the only advice i can give you is to be yourself man, if you like a girl and want to tell her that you want to have a relationship with her then do so.. if you want to play the games then do that... im not the type to play all the games that goes with chasing girls personally, well not all of them anyway... sure if i had acted differently or said something different to those other girls, i may have got into a relationship with one of them. but i dont care about that anymore.
fortunately for me, i dont care about any pain experienced before, because of the happiness i am experiencing now. unfortunately you arent where i am now, so i guess that sucks.
but man, its beautiful when it comes, and it took like 2 years for it to come to me. i dunno, just have fun i guess, and dont get taken advantage of.